There are no words for the frustration I feel at wanting to write or compose but not having the ability to force myself to do it 

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#adhd  #add  #yeah  


self care ideas ( ◠ ᴥ ◠ )

  • eat fruit or something sweet
  • take a warm bath with lots of bubbles!!
  • brush hair gently
  • walk outside barefoot, look at nice flowers
  • listen to soft nice music
  • go to the thrift store and buy nice old clothes
  • bake something
  • do laundry and make clothes smell nice
  • brush cat

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Red floewr !! by almalki8

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INFJ Confession #910


I expect so much of myself I think it’s making me ill. I try my best to offer advice (making it humorous rather than good if it gets too ‘deep’ because I have this chameleon thing where all my friends think I’m goofy…) but I just want to hug my knees, curl up into a ball and cry until my eyes bleed. I just know that my seven year old self would be so disappointed in me and I -could- do well but I’m not… It hurts. A lot.

#i feel it  #infj  


Today’s mental health reminder: a relapse, a sudden series of attacks, a string of awful days, (or whatever your step back may be) does not decrease your value. Take your time, do some self care, reflect on the progress that you have made. You are strong; one step back is nothing when you look at the journey you have already made.

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Lolita is famous, not I. I am an obscure, doubly obscure, novelist with an unpronounceable name.

Vladimir Nabokov (via observando)

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Why do bronies hate the friendzone so much I thought friendship is magic

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#oh boy  

While gazing at myself from yourself, I was beautiful.

Dejan Stojanovic, The Shape (via fables-of-the-reconstruction)

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in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result

This is really validating. I have a bad habit of withholding things when I’m upset because I assume I am the only person on the planet who would be so sensitive as to be upset by whatever the thing is. I needed this.

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What a great idea! When making your list here is a bunch of different “checks” to put beside them to keep track of which items where completed, cancelled, fobbed off on someone else, or forgotten. I LOVE it!

When you find yourself drowning in self-hate, you have to remind yourself that you weren’t born feeling this way. That at some point in your journey, some person or experience sent you the message that there was something wrong with who you are, and you internalized those messages and took them on as your truth. But that hate isn’t yours to carry, and those judgments aren’t about you. And in the same way that you learned to think badly of yourself, you can learn to think new, self-loving and accepting thoughts. You can learn to challenge those beliefs, take away their power, and reclaim your own. It won’t be easy, and it won’t happen over night. But it is possible. And it starts when you decide that there has to be more to life than this pain you feel. It starts when you decide that you deserve to discover it.

Daniell Koepke (via whenanxietystrikes)

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Cape Romain, South Carolina, by Alistair Nicol

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I’m very picky with whom I give my energy to. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity and spirit exclusively to those who reflect sincerity.

Dau Voire (via introvertdear)